October 2010
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Role-play Idea(s)
queerkink:
Prim victorian/wandering gypsy. Mmmm, corrupt-y.
Mmmm, indeed! & to riff on that ~ Repressed 50s housewife and repair wo/man.
To All the Kick-Ass Beautiful Fierce Femmes! |... →
A wonderfully raw spoken-word poem by Ivan Coyote - a butch-eye view on loving femmes.
August 2010
4 posts
Random Acts of Sexual Citizenship | CarnalNation →
Thank you Midori! This gem of an article outlines many ways we can act as sex-positive citizens, changing the world for the better - one mind (and one bedroom) at a time.
Some highlights:
If you find yourself staying at a hotel that supplies a bible in each room, tuck a packet or two of condoms in it when you check out.
Use the phrase “all genders” instead of “both...
The Pros and Cons of Most Exotic Places to Have... →
Jenny, a.k.a The Bloggess, is brilliant, in a sidewards way. Above all, this made me laugh. A preview:
“In space Pros: You feel skinny because you’re weightless. No one can hear you scream. Cons: The wet-spot is everywhere.”
Yes.
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Review: JimmyJane's Form 2
$135.00
Form 2, a.k.a. “Little Perky”
Vibrator by JimmyJane
Buy from EdenFantasys
The Form 2 took me by surprise - who knew such powerful and varied vibrations could come in such a small package? The versatility of this compact, wireless, waterproof vibe makes it ideal for creative play: in the bath, in a side room at work, tucked into a harness pouch during partner sex…...
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Review: Spartacus Blindfold
$22.99 Blindfold by Spartacus Buy from EdenFantasys
Sensory deprivation play is just so delicious… especially if you play games like “What’s in My Mouth?” with your lover. This soft leather blindfold has its good points, but for full visual deprivation, this simply doesn’t cut it. If you want a true blindfold, look elsewhere - this one is an...
July 2010
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Review: Vixen's "Off with their Head" Hitachi Cap
$32.99 Off with Their Head Vibrator Attachment by Vixen Creations Buy from EdenFantasys
I thought I had it all with my original Hitachi! Little did I know… this cap’s various ridges expand on the Wand’s strong vibrations for variation & new sensations. This is the cherry on top of an already very good thing. See my full review on Eden Fantasys, then experience the...
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Review: Fun Factory's "Magnum" Dildo
$69.99 Magnum Dildo by Fun Factory Buy from EdenFantasys
The Magnum is smooth, deliciously filling, and has a simply functional design. It’s both beautiful to look at and a delight to use. I would recommend this for anyone, anytime, anywhere. By far one of my favorites! See my full review on Eden Fantasys, then experience this (very) functional art!
June 2010
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Review: Tantus Throb Dildo
$35.99 Throb Dildo by Tantus Buy from EdenFantasys
‘Throb’ is a definite character - this toy has distinctive veins that stand out, a modest size and inviting texture. See my full review on Eden Fantasys, then see what this veiny little guy can do!
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Review: Sportsheets Thigh Harness
$22.99 Thigh Harness Harness by Sportsheets Buy from EdenFantasys
This harness lets me fuck and be fucked at the same time, which is a rare, wonderful experience! It opens up many new possibilities for creative lovers, and is both easy to use and easy to clean. Don’t be fooled by the less-than-sexy appearance - this toy delivers satisfaction in a humble but oh-so-functional way. See my...
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e[lust] 15
Photo courtesy of Sexy Tiger X
Welcome to e[lust] - Your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. Want to be included in e[lust] #16? Start with the rules, check out the schedule in the site’s sidebar and subscribe...
May 2010
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Dirty in all the Right Places
(Explicit/Not Safe for Work)
The entryway was a great gilded arch, whose fleur-de-lis wallpaper glowed a deep red from the dim lighting. I grasped your hand, feeling pleasantly out of place in my thrift store cocktail dress (black, tight, and short, falling just above my knees). The hostess smiled crisply over her starched blouse and sleek black tie, “This way, ladies.” She led us through the...
April 2010
1 post
Ecorotic™ Green Sex Toys @ Good Vibrations →
Happy Earth Day!
Love yourself AND the planet…at the same time. Hooray for hand-powered vibrators - camping trip, anyone?
March 2010
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Review: Sliquid Organics Gel
$14.99 Sliquid organics gel Lubricant by Sliquid LLC Buy from EdenFantasys
I love this lube. It feels delectably silky and smooth, and it’s kind to both my body and the environment. An all-around winner! See my full review on Eden Fantasys, then lube up and love your body!
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BDSM Checklist →
(from LATCHES, via Uncommon Curiosity)
A great tool for D/s relationships and scene negotiation, especially for those new to kink/BDSM communication.
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Sugarbutch + The Stockroom = →
Sugarbutch loves sex toys, maybe even more than I do! Maybe…
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Mr. Sexsmith’s Other Girlfriend: Prom Is So Gay →
Mr. Sexsmith’s take on the recent outrage surrounding a Southern high school’s treatment of a young lesbian couple. He asks, rightly so, Why so much outrage over a prom date, when queer youth are murdered and there’s so little public furor? Where are our priorities?
It may be easier to deal with such a relatively small problem as Constance McMillan’s - she and her...
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eLust #10: Weekly Sexblog Roundup →
In this issue:
Negotiation – Not Nearly As Awkward As Having a Breakdown in Public – All the worries about getting to know a new person (“Am I dressed ok? Are they gonna like my stories about my grandma?”) get exaggerated when you’re talking about sex and desire…
Dollar Store Domme – He definitely can’t elude the dollops of toothpaste I dab onto his nipples. It takes a delicious second before...
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"Start Without Me" « The Erotic Writer →
Knee-weakening erotica from The Erotic Writer:
“Go ahead and start,” I’d said. And you have. You do have your little crooked smile on, below half lidded eyes, pillowed head propped up and looking at me. But I don’t have to guess you’re naked under the covers. No. There you are, lying in the middle of the bed, pale and beautiful, and spread. Your knees wide apart and bent, I catch your...
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Wicked Tongues →
“I love cunnilingus. I love having the opportunity for my lips and tongue and chin and nose to discover the secrets of another; and I love to have my legs spread, my cunt open and welcoming of anothers’ teasing face.
There are so many different ways that a mouth can connect themselves with my cunt. And so many partners, each with their own way of connecting with me…”
from...
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Public Library Sex Info Survey Looking For... →
Help out with a study on sex ed: it’s designed to examine whether public libraries’ internet filters prevent people from accessing valuable sexual education information.
Worldwide Ages of Consent →
A look at the varied cultural landscape around sex and morality.
Did you know:
“It is illegal for an American citizen or resident to have sex in another country with someone aged under 16, unless the age difference is less than 4 years, in which case the minimum age is 12.”
A 16 year old and a 12 year old can have sex - a 10th grader & a 6th grader - but if one member of a...
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Hey Lesbians, Did You Take a Girl to the... →
“A Mississippi school would rather shut down prom than invite a cute lesbian couple. Well, that’s nonsense! Let’s get visible, lesbian/bisexuals/queers/etc. Autostraddle wants your cute same-sex prom/fancypants/homecoming photos. You could even win a prize!”
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Singing, Dancing—and Eroticism, Around the World |... →
Sex, love, and tango. Vertical expression of a horizontal desire…
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No, I do not wear petticoats,
my curves subdued by starch and bone.
Rather, I am joyful, basking
in ferocity, freedom
to wear red satin corsets or
grease-stained flannel and know
all the while
my hips flare just the same.
.
No, I am not bitter, angry at men,
but rather, grateful to all the women
before me, my tall and sequined
great-grandmother, a flapper.
My great-aunt, who broke...
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Porn is a Reflection of Our Diverse Sexual Needs →
Interesting op-ed: porn is good for us! Three cheers everybody, and grab the remote.
Linked post by Lawrence Lanoff, via Dodson and Ross
Mr. Sexsmith: Sex Study: Multigenerational... →
Heather Corinna is doing a large study on multigenerational experiences with and attitudes about casual sex. The data will ideally be used for publication, but answers are completely anonymous and will only be used anonymously.
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Best-of Sex: through Hazel's eyes
The internet is a wonderful place to meet minds with other sex-positive freaks. Some of these glorious freaks include the following:
Betty Dodson and Carlin Ross (mother & child of masturbation liberation)
Sinclair Sexsmith / Sugarbutch
Carnal Nation (a whole league of freaks)
Good Vibrations
Go. Go now. You won’t regret it.
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Let's talk about sex.
I’m going to talk about sex. I’m going to talk about sex and culture surrounding sex. I’m going to talk about sex and culture surrounding sex and how people have sex and how other people have sex and where to find the best sex toys and what to do when you’re not sure what to do about sex. I’ll probably use a lot more run-on sentences, include links, pictures, toy...